Single In The City

“Culture sees singleness as a problem to be solved, the church treats it as a waiting room for marriage, but the King's way sees it as a season of becoming.”

“Moving from single to married does not eliminate life's difficulties—you are simply exchanging one set of problems for another.”

“When you achieve spiritual and personal goals during singleness, you choose future relationships from a place of desire rather than desperation.”

“Your standards are not defined by what you articulate; your standards are defined by what you allow and tolerate.”

“Emotional snipers are hidden or subtle emotional triggers that operate covertly outside your conscious awareness and sabotage future success.”

“Failing to do the hard developmental work during your single season forces a future partner to endure baggage you refused to heal before meeting them.”

“Forgiveness does not excuse someone else's past behavior; it breaks the emotional bond and sets your soul free.”

“Surrendering your timetable to God reflects a deep trust that He will give you what is best for you when it is best for you.”