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The Art of Dodging Spears

Victory Church • May 31, 2026 • 57 min

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Summary

When facing harsh words, unfair attacks, or toxic relationships, believers can learn from David's example of dodging spears through worship and trust in God. Instead of retaliating, harboring bitterness, or adopting a victim mindset, we are called to praise God, guard our hearts, and choose forgiveness. By entrusting difficult people and painful seasons to the Lord, we allow Him to defend us and transform our trials into a song of victory.

Themes

Trusting God as DefenderChoosing Worship Over RetaliationGuarding the Heart Against BitternessOvercoming Comparison and JealousyPerseverance Through Unfair ConflictHealing and Forgiveness

Pastor's Points

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1. Don't throw the spear back.

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2. Don't turn into a spear thrower towards others.

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3. See the wound behind the weapon.

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4. Put on the armor of God.

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5. If you don't quit, you win.

Key Points

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Don't throw the spear back when someone attacks or slanders you, because returning evil for evil only perpetuates harm.
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Don't turn into a spear thrower towards others by taking out your frustration and pain on innocent people around you.
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See the wound behind the weapon, recognizing that individuals who lash out are often acting from unhealed pain and trauma.
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Put on the full armor of God and lift up the shield of faith to protect your mind and heart against spiritual attacks and harsh words.
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If you don't quit, you win, knowing that persevering through painful seasons allows God to turn your trials into a song of victory.
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Shift from a victim mindset to a victor mindset by keeping a song of worship in your heart despite ongoing conflict.
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King Saul allowed comparison and jealousy to cloud the clarity of his calling, leading him to focus on destroying David rather than fulfilling his God-given mission.

Sermon Moments

“Saul was holding a weapon of this world, but David had a weapon of worship. It was the weapon of David's worship that helped him to elude the spear.”

“Comparison always clouds the clarity of your calling.”

“One of the best ways to know you passed a test when somebody was throwing spears is that you still have a song in your heart.”

“When they go low, we go high. When they take shots at you, we choose to pray for them.”

“You can tell someone who's been hit by a spear—they turn a deep shade of bitter. But you can also tell someone who's avoided spears: they've learned how to smile.”

“His tears were proof of his tenderness. His tears were proof that the spears never got into his heart.”

This Week

Refuse to retaliate or slander when unfairly attacked or criticized, entrusting your defense to God.

Guard your heart and speech so you do not project your frustration onto family members, friends, or coworkers.

Show kindness to a difficult person, recognizing that hurtful actions often stem from unhealed internal pain.

Replace a victim mindset with daily worship, praising God every morning for His protection and refuge.

Stop comparing your achievements or recognition to others, focusing faithfully on your divine calling.

Put on the armor of God through daily prayer and Scripture reading to guard against spiritual darts and bitterness.

Release persistent conflict to the Lord, establishing healthy boundaries while maintaining a tender and forgiving heart.

Remember This

Instead of retaliating when spears are thrown at you, choose worship and trust God as your defender to keep your heart tender and victorious.

A Challenge for You

Surrender every spear, hurt, and conflict to the Lord at the altar today, choosing daily to forgive, keep your heart tender, and trust God to turn your trial into a song of victory.

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