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You're Managing Pain, Not Working Through It

Sandals Church • Jul 27, 2025 • 41 min

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Summary

In this message from Matthew 9, Pastor Fredo Ramos challenges believers to move past cynicism, self-sufficiency, and religious guardrails to experience the living power of Jesus. By examining the stories of Jairus and the woman with the issue of blood, we see that pride and hidden disbelief often keep us from receiving the miracles Christ longs to perform. Instead of settling for managing symptoms and pain, believers are invited to bring their total desperation to Jesus and embrace the disruptive, beautiful work of His full restoration.

Themes

Faith vs. CynicismPride vs. HumilityDesperation and MiraclesDisruptive HealingOvercoming Disbelief

Pastor's Points

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To walk by faith as a disciple, I must confront the disbelief still hiding in my heart today.

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To walk by faith as a disciple, I must come to Jesus in my desperation.

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To walk by faith as a disciple, I must learn to welcome the disruption that healing brings.

Key Points

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Cynicism and skepticism may protect us from disappointment, but they blind us to the active, miraculous work Jesus is doing in our lives today.
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Jairus set aside his social standing, religious tradition, and personal dignity by bowing before Jesus, demonstrating that pride is often the primary barrier to receiving God's miraculous help.
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Jesus met the suffering woman in her 12-year isolation, calling her 'daughter' to instantly restore her dignity and proving that God does His deepest work in our deepest places of pain and shame.
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To walk by faith as a disciple, I must confront the disbelief still hiding in my heart today.
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Familiarity with disappointment causes us to rationalize away God's presence and power, mocking or ignoring the very things Jesus longs to resurrect within us.
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To walk by faith as a disciple, I must come to Jesus in my desperation.
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Desperation is not a failure to be hidden, but the birthplace for miracles where God draws near to comfort those with crushed spirits.

Sermon Moments

“Living in a skeptical world makes it feel safer to be cynical than sincere, but cynicism blinds us to the work Jesus is currently doing. Choosing sarcasm and critique over childlike faith protects us from disappointment at the cost of trading away true spiritual amazement.”

“Jairus set aside his social standing and religious tradition by bowing before Jesus to ask for his daughter's life. True faith requires putting our need for God above our pride, as pride is often the main barrier standing between us and God's miraculous work.”

“Jesus addressed the woman suffering from bleeding as 'daughter,' instantly restoring her dignity and belonging after twelve years of painful isolation. God performs His deepest work in the exact places of our deepest pain, meeting our shame with His overwhelming love.”

“An unbelieving heart causes people to turn away from God and rationalize away His presence and miracles due to familiarity with disappointment. For Jesus to resurrect what has died in our lives, He must first clear out the subtle disbelief hiding in our hearts.”

“Walking by faith requires acknowledging our total desperation and vulnerability before God instead of relying on self-sufficiency. Desperation serves as the birthplace for miracles, and God draws near to comfort and restore those who acknowledge their deep need for Him.”

“Genuine healing from God is often a slow, disruptive process that challenges our comfortable coping mechanisms and existing systems. Rather than merely managing symptoms and pain, disciples are invited to embrace the disruptive work of Christ to receive complete restoration.”

This Week

Identify and confess areas where cynicism or sarcasm has replaced childlike expectation in your relationship with God.

Lay down any pride, social standing, or concern for dignity that keeps you from crying out to Jesus for help.

Bring your deepest areas of hidden shame, pain, or long-standing isolation to Jesus, trusting Him to restore your dignity and identity.

Examine your heart for subtle disbelief or past disappointments that lead you to write off God's willingness to work in your life.

Acknowledge your utter vulnerability and daily desperation before God rather than relying on self-sufficiency.

Resist the temptation to settle for merely managing pain symptoms, and invite Jesus to break through your protective coping mechanisms.

Exercise patient trust during God's healing process, recognizing that His deepest, most durable work in your soul takes time.

Remember This

Rather than guarding ourselves through cynicism and settling for managing our pain, true faith requires laying down our pride, acknowledging our desperation, and welcoming Christ's disruptive work to receive complete healing.

A Challenge for You

What's it going to take for you to place your faith in Jesus? What kind of disbelief do you need to confess today? What kind of desperation are you ready to declare through worship? What kind of disruption are you willing for Him to work out in your life?

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