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When Grace Looks Different Than You Expected

Sandals Church • Nov 16, 2025 • 39 min

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Summary

In moments of deep distress, believers often need a miracle from God, but grace does not always arrive in the way we expect. Looking at the story of the Canaanite woman in Matthew 15, Pastor Matt Brown shows how Jesus tests her heart through silence, cultural barriers, and sharp words. Rather than taking offense or walking away, the woman responds with persistent humility and faith, recognizing that even a fraction of God's mercy is sufficient to heal her daughter.

Themes

Persistent FaithDivine GraceOvercoming OffenseHumility in PrayerGod's Timing and Silence

Pastor's Points

1.

Never miss an opportunity to connect with Jesus.

2.

Do not interpret God's silence as your final answer.

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Refuse to let the attitudes and opinions of others keep you from Jesus.

4.

Be willing to be deeply offended by Jesus.

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Believe that Jesus is God and He has grace for you.

Key Points

1.
In order to get what you desperately need from God, you must never miss an opportunity to connect with Jesus.
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In order to get what you desperately need from God, you must not interpret God's silence as your final answer.
3.
In order to get what you desperately need from God, you must refuse to let the attitudes and opinions of others keep you from Jesus.
4.
In order to get what you desperately need from God, you must be willing to be deeply offended by Jesus.
5.
In order to get what you desperately need from God, you must believe that Jesus is God and He has grace for you.
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Just because God is silent or not speaking does not mean He is not actively working behind the scenes.
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Never let flawed human representatives or unwelcoming attitudes within the church isolate you from Christ.

Sermon Moments

“There are moments in your life where God is speaking, God is close. And if you miss that moment, you may not get another one.”

“Just because God is not speaking does not mean He is not working.”

“Sometimes God has to be silent for a while to get you ready for His answer.”

“Let Jesus be Jesus. Let people be people. And don't confuse the two.”

“If you keep running from churches every time you get wounded, you might miss out on the growth you desperately need.”

“If God has never offended you, then you have probably never heard from God.”

“The Son of God left His table and He became a dog so you could have a seat at the table and become a son.”

“Some of the hard things that you're going through, some of the disasters that you are facing are meant to bring you home.”

This Week

Respond immediately when you feel God moving in your life rather than delaying or hesitating.

Refuse to interpret God's temporary silence in prayer as a final answer or rejection.

Distinguish between the imperfect actions of church members and the perfect character of Jesus.

Examine your heart for personal pride or offense when God's Word confronts your life.

Persist in worship and prayer even when facing overwhelming or desperate situations.

Recognize that even the smallest portion of God's mercy is sufficient for your greatest need.

Allow God to use difficult circumstances to draw you closer to Him instead of pushing you away.

Remember This

When you are desperate for God's help, humble yourself, refuse to let offense or human flaws keep you away, and persistently rely on Jesus' limitless grace.

A Challenge for You

God let us choose in this moment obedience rather than offense, push through all of our insecurities, and come before You in a desperate way so that we can find great faith, be changed, and be saved.

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