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To Know the Love of Christ

City of Refuge • Aug 26, 2026 • 62 min

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Summary

In this teaching on Ephesians 3, Bishop Noel Jones explores the overwhelming love of God that transcends human intellectual understanding and sensory experience. Real love is defined by internal character and sacrifice rather than physical appearance or selfish expectations, reflecting God's persistent grace toward us in our weakest moments. As believers internalize God's unconditional love, they are empowered by the Holy Spirit to extend that same sacrificial love, spiritual clarity, and restoration to others.

Themes

Divine vs. Human LoveSacrificial GivingSpiritual Revelation over Sensory PerceptionInner Strength through the Holy SpiritOvercoming Evil with Good

Key Points

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God's love transcends human intellectual capacity and sensory perception, requiring spiritual revelation to fully comprehend.
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Our closeness to God cannot be measured by our outward circumstances, but by the spiritual revelation He imparts to our hearts.
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True love is inseparable from the character of the lover, meaning we can only love to the depth of who we are internally.
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Genuine love is measured by sacrifice and the extent to which one is willing to give rather than receive.
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Human capacity to love unconditionally originates from receiving God’s persistent, pursuing love when we were at our weakest.
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Loving God requires horizontal expression; claiming to love an unseen God while harboring hatred toward others reveals a spiritual disconnect.
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Bitterness and hatred spiritually blind individuals, while operating in God's love brings spiritual light and clarity to every situation.
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Believers mirror God's character when they choose to overcome evil with good and remain committed to those whom society has written off.

Sermon Moments

“Closeness to God cannot be measured by situation; it's got to be measured by revelation.”

“What you love determines how you love, because love is no greater than the character who loves.”

“If you love somebody and you can't give up anything for them, it sounds more like lust than love.”

“God never walks away from a weak object; He hangs with a weak object until the object gets strong enough to say, 'Lord, I'll love you back.'”

“He that hateth his brother walketh in darkness... love is the light, and only love can exercise the real expression of a child of God.”

“When you can hold on to somebody in your church or community that everybody has written off, at that moment you are most like God.”

“Your lowered expectation comes across the table as suspicion... but the Lord says, 'Let me dangle you, because I won't drop you.'”

“He knows everything about you and it doesn't change His attitude.”

This Week

Measure your closeness to God by the revelation of His Word and Spirit in your heart rather than by temporary life circumstances.

Examine your motivations in relationships to ensure you are seeking to give and sacrifice rather than merely receive.

Evaluate any areas of bitterness or unresolved offense toward others, asking the Holy Spirit to release God's unconditional love in your heart.

Actively pray for and extend kindness to someone in your family, church, or community whom others may have given up on or written off.

Practice responding to negative or harmful behavior with active goodness and patience, reflecting the unshakeable character of God.

Stop allowing past hurts or disappointments to lower your expectations of God's goodness, trusting Him completely with your heart and future.

Intentionally encourage someone by sharing how God’s love sustained you through a past trial or spiritual weakness.

Remember This

God’s love is not defined by our circumstances or human feelings, but is a divine, sacrificial reality that transforms our character and empowers us to love others unconditionally.

A Challenge for You

Let us habitually love one another and share our experiences of God's delivering power so that together we can explore the endless dimensions of His love.

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