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The Secret of Prayer & Fasting

Philip Anthony Mitchell

2819 Church • Mar 31, 2026 • 108 min

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Summary

In this message on Matthew 6:5-18, Pastor Philip Anthony Mitchell unpacks Jesus' teaching on prayer and fasting from the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus warns against praying for human applause or using vain repetition, reminding believers that prayer is not a performative formula but a heart-centered model for communion with God. By examining the Lord's Prayer, we see that effective prayer prioritizes God's intimacy, kingdom, and will over our own selfish desires.

Themes

Prayer and FastingThe Secret PlaceKingdom PrioritiesIntimacy with GodSelflessness

Pastor's Points

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Element 1: A consciousness of intimacy, sovereignty, and community ('Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name')

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Element 2: A missional focus on God's kingdom and will ('Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven')

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Element 3: A posture of daily dependency ('Give us this day our daily bread')

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Element 4: Regular confession and forgiveness ('Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors')

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Element 5: Request for strength in trial and deliverance from evil ('And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil')

Key Points

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Prayer is communion and communication with God, representing the highest activity any human can engage in.
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The presence of God is the ultimate and most satisfying coping mechanism for pain, heaviness, and discouragement.
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Jesus assumes every follower will have an active prayer life, explicitly saying 'when you pray' rather than 'if you pray.'
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True prayer should take place primarily in secret, undivided and free from the noise and motives of human applause.
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The Lord's Prayer is not a formula to be mechanically recited, but a blueprint and model to shape the elements of our prayer life.
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The majority of our prayers should focus on God's business, His kingdom, His will, and the needs of others rather than self-absorbed requests.
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Fasting without prayer is merely a hunger strike; true fasting abstains from food to weaken the flesh and strengthen the spirit in God's presence.

Sermon Moments

“Pastor Philip shares his personal battle with heaviness and how crawling into God's presence proved to be the greatest source of comfort.”

“Recalling his childhood in Queens watching his mother bang an old wooden cross on the basement floor as she interceded for others.”

“The illustration comparing superficial prayers to children taking 15 minutes of build-up just to ask their father for a Starbucks drink.”

“The story of pausing his daughter Izzy's prayer so she could reflect on who God was, resulting in tears and a powerful move of the Spirit in their home.”

“Highlighting that only one line in the entire model prayer focuses on personal daily needs, while the rest centers on God and others.”

This Week

Establish a dedicated secret place—a specific room, park, or quiet space—to meet regularly with God alone.

Examine your prayer motives this week to ensure you are seeking God's presence rather than trying to impress others or recite empty words.

Use the Lord's Prayer as a daily framework by spending time honoring God's name before making personal requests.

Shift the focus of your daily prayers to spend at least half your time praying for unchurched loved ones, God's kingdom, and cultural transformation.

Practice direct, sincere communication with God without feeling the need to build elaborate legal cases or use unnecessary theological jargon.

Actively release grudges and forgive those who have offended you during your secret prayer times.

Combine fasting with focused secret prayer this week to intentionally weaken the flesh and draw near to the Holy Spirit.

Remember This

The secret of prayer is praying in secret, aligning our hearts with God's kingdom and will rather than using prayer as a selfish ritual.

A Challenge for You

Stop filling your prayer life exclusively with your own interests; begin crying out for God's kingdom to come, His will to be done, and souls to be saved in your family, city, and nation.

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