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Look Within

Serena Gonzalez

Lakewood Church • Oct 6, 2026 • 32 min

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Take this message with you through a journey of Scripture, reflection, and prayer.

Summary

In this message, Pastor Serena Gonzalez launches the 'Learning to Love' series by calling believers to look within their own hearts. True love originates from God, who is love itself, and we can only extend genuine love when we respond to how He first loved us. Rather than using the 'mirror' of scripture to fix others, we must let God examine our own lives, heal our insecurities, and empower us to love our neighbors selflessly.

Themes

God's LoveIdentity in ChristSelf-ExaminationRelationshipsInner Healing

Pastor's Points

1.

What is God revealing in me?

2.

Where do I need healing?

3.

How am I responding? (Out of insecurity or identity?)

4.

Have I spent time receiving God's love before trying to give my opinion?

Key Points

1.
Love is not merely an action God performs; love is the very nature of who God is.
2.
We do not initiate love on our own; we love because God first loved us.
3.
1 Corinthians 13 was written by Paul to correct a messy, divided church, reminding them that spiritual gifts are meaningless without love.
4.
Jesus commanded us to love our neighbors as ourselves, requiring us to embrace God's love so we can love ourselves properly.
5.
It is impossible to extend healthy, selfless love to others if we have not fully received God's love for ourselves.
6.
The 'mirror' of scripture is not meant for shaming or pointing out flaws in others, but for self-examination and alignment with God.
7.
A person who is fully secure in God's love does not demand that other people complete them.

Sermon Moments

“Love is not something that God does. Love is who God is.”

“We don't initiate love. We actually respond to it. We love because God loved us so much so we can't help but respond in a way that reflects Him.”

“1 Corinthians chapter 13 was not written to express the love between a man and a woman on their wedding day. It was written by Paul to a very messy church.”

“How can we extend something to someone else that we ourselves have not fully embraced?”

“Before you can fix them, love says: examine you. Reflect Me, but examine you.”

“This mirror is not for shaming. This mirror is for aligning.”

“Loved people love people well.”

This Week

Use the 'mirror' of God's Word to examine your own heart before judging or trying to fix someone else.

Practice patience and kindness toward yourself, choosing not to constantly rehearse past failures.

Pause to receive God's love in prayer before texting, commenting, or giving your opinion in a heated moment.

Avoid rushing out of meaningful spaces—stay present with loved ones when they are talking or sharing.

Take time to learn the names and needs of your physical neighbors or coworkers to serve them better.

Prioritize someone else's preferences over your own in everyday choices as an act of sacrificial love.

Ask God to heal broken areas of your past so you can respond to others out of your identity in Christ rather than insecurity.

Remember This

You cannot truly love others until you receive God's love and allow it to secure your own identity and heart.

A Challenge for You

Carry the mirror of self-examination this week and ask yourself before responding: What is God revealing in me, where do I need healing, am I responding out of insecurity or identity, and have I received God's love before giving my opinion?

These are personal sermon notes shared to help you remember the message — not a replacement for Scripture, your church, or your pastors.