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It Can't Come with Me pt3 - An Ineffective Prayer Life

Edward Jackson Jr

Friendship Baptist Church • Dec 29, 2025 • 105 min

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Summary

In this message based on Mark 11:20–25, Pastor Edward Jackson Jr. addresses the causes and remedies of an ineffective prayer life. Drawing from Jesus' interaction with the fruitless fig tree and the cleansing of the temple, Pastor Jackson warns against looking spiritually productive while lacking real spiritual substance. He outlines three essential principles for effective prayer: placing our faith entirely in God, removing doubt from our spoken words, and practicing intentional forgiveness toward others.

Themes

Effective PrayerFaith in GodOvercoming DoubtFruitfulness vs. AppearanceForgiveness

Pastor's Points

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1. Your faith has to be in the right place.

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2. You got to have doubt-free words.

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3. You have to be an intentional forgiver.

Key Points

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Your faith has to be in the right place, anchored firmly in God rather than in people, money, titles, or personal abilities.
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You got to have doubt-free words, ensuring that what you speak aligns with God's promises and will.
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You have to be an intentional forgiver, because holding resentment or anger hinders your prayers from being answered.
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Jesus cursed the fig tree because it had leaves (appeared fruitful) but bore no fruit, warning believers against looking spiritual without having true spiritual substance.
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God's house is intended to be a house of prayer, and Jesus cleansed the temple when other distractions took priority over seeking God.
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Mountains in Scripture represent great obstacles and tribulations that can be overcome when prayed against with confidence and without doubt.
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Everyone possesses faith, but many believers suffer because their faith is misplaced in temporary or unreliable things.

Sermon Moments

“The fig tree had leaves but no fruit, teaching that there is a danger in looking the part without having substance to back it up.”

“Placing total trust in a church chair when sitting down without checking it proves everyone has faith, but it is often misplaced in worldly things.”

“Comparing misplaced faith to gambling at a casino slot machine, illustrating that true, lasting returns come only when faith is placed in God.”

“Describing unforgiveness in prayer as trying to pray with a gorilla on your back, weighing down spiritual freedom and hindering answer to prayer.”

“Challenging the congregation on whether it is better to hold on to human principle or let go and receive God's promise.”

This Week

Examine your spiritual life this week to ensure you are bearing genuine spiritual fruit rather than just appearing spiritual.

Identify areas where your faith may be misplaced in money, titles, or human relationships, and deliberately shift your trust back to God.

Guard your speech throughout the week against speaking doubt and defeat over your circumstances.

Speak directly to the obstacles and mountains in your life with confidence in God's power and align your words with His promises.

Make a conscious list of anyone you hold resentment toward and intentionally choose to forgive them.

Ask the Holy Spirit for supernatural strength to forgive when human effort is not enough.

Release the requirement for an apology from those who have wronged you so you can move forward in complete freedom.

Remember This

An effective prayer life requires unyielding faith in God, speech untouched by doubt, and a heart completely cleansed of unforgiveness.

A Challenge for You

Starting today, I'm not holding on to unforgiveness another day. And if you see me holding on to unforgiveness, remind me to let it go.

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