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Five Great Qualities of a Friend

7 Hills Church • Oct 26, 2025 • 98 min

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Summary

In this message, Pastor Marcus Mecum unpacks the vital role of godly relationships in our spiritual journey, drawing wisdom from the life of the Apostle Paul and his companions. He highlights five essential qualities of great friends and a healthy church: lifting others up, letting them out of past baggage, letting them into community, leveling them out for emotional healing, and looking them up when they feel like giving up. Believers are encouraged to go beyond passive invitations and actively be a bringer and a faithful friend to their city.

Themes

FriendshipCommunityRestorationEncouragementEvangelism

Pastor's Points

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A great friend lifts you up

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A great friend lets you out

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A great friend lets you in

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A great friend levels you out

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A great friend looks you up

Key Points

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A great friend lifts you up by looking past your history, flaws, and current limitations to encourage you toward God's future.
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A great friend lets you out by helping distance you from past trauma and grave clothes rather than holding past failures over you.
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A great friend lets you in by inviting you into their circle, giving you credibility, and believing in God's plan for your life when others doubt.
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A great friend levels you out by giving you time and space to heal, humble yourself, and grow when you face rejection or setbacks.
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A great friend looks you up by searching for you when you want to quit and calling you back to your divine destiny.
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Past relational hurts and disappointments can cause people to isolate, but true godly friends are essential to completing our spiritual race.
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True friends point people beyond their own human limitations to Jesus, the ultimate friend who never leaves or forsakes us.
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Sermon Moments

“Behind every Paul is an Ananias along the way. No one gets anywhere without some great friends along the way.”

“Ananias knew he would let Paul down... But what made Ananias great was he never said, 'Look at me.' He pointed that man to Jesus.”

“It's one thing to lift you. It's another thing to let you out... We've got to get close enough to people that we loose them from the grave clothes of their sin.”

“Barnabas shows up and gives credibility to Paul, opens doors for him, gives him opportunities, introduces him to people.”

“When hardship or hurt makes us want to quit... God puts someone in your life that looks you up and says, 'No way. You're not done. God still has a plan for your life.'”

“Every one of you that call this church your home should say... 'I'm a bringer, not an inviter.'”

This Week

Refuse to let past relational disappointments cause you to isolate yourself; actively seek out and build authentic, godly friendships.

Be an encourager to someone this week by overlooking their past mistakes or present flaws and reminding them of God's future for their life.

Help someone move past old baggage or shame by extending grace and refusing to bring up their past failures.

Open your circle of influence to include someone who needs community, advocacy, or credibility in the church.

Allow seasons of waiting or constructive feedback to level you out and heal your heart when you face rejection or frustration.

Reach out to a friend who has stepped away from church or ministry and encourage them that God is not finished with them.

Be a active bringer rather than a passive inviter by offering to meet someone, sit with them, and walk alongside them into church.

Remember This

God uses true godly friends to lift us, restore us, and remind us of our calling so that we can finish our spiritual race together.

A Challenge for You

Think of someone in your life by name, pray for them, and actively look them up this week to bring them into God's presence and offer true friendship.

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