Take this message with you through a journey of Scripture, reflection, and prayer.
Summary
Themes
Key Points
- 1.Living a godly life will inevitably bring persecution, offense, and unfair treatment from others.
- 2.True Christian character is revealed not when life is easy, but in how we respond when people wrong or betray us.
- 3.Retaliation and payback are natural human instincts, but believers are commanded never to repay evil for evil.
- 4.When you are offended or hurt, an audience is created; retaliating diminishes your Christian witness in front of others.
- 5.As far as it depends on you, make every effort to live peaceably with all people, including difficult ones.
- 6.Exacting revenge does not belong to us because only God possesses the moral perfection and complete knowledge required to execute true justice.
- 7.Meeting an enemy's wrongdoing with practical acts of love and kindness heaps burning coals of conviction upon them while leaving judgment to God.
- 8.Overcoming evil is a spiritual battle fought on two fronts: the evil directed at us from the outside and the sinful desire for revenge within our own hearts.
- 9.Spiritual maturity requires believers to learn how to absorb hurt in God's presence on their knees rather than broadcasting pain on social media.
- 10.Forgiveness is not extended to excuse the offender, but to free the believer from remaining permanently chained to the pain of the past.
Sermon Moments
“Every time you and I are offended, automatically an audience is created... don't blow your witness in the presence of that audience.”
“If you don't have peace with somebody else, it should not be because of you; it should be because that other person has chosen not to have peace.”
“That seat of bringing justice for what happened to you does not belong to you... you don't have the moral character to exact justice.”
“No one who has hurt you is going to escape. There is no sin that is going to go unpaid for—it will either be paid by the blood of Jesus or paid by the wrath of God.”
“As Christians, especially in America, you got to get good at absorbing hurt... you absorb it on your knees, you absorb it in God's presence, you absorb it by keeping your mouth shut.”
“Forgiveness is never for the offender; forgiveness is for you... to release you from remaining permanently chained to the person, the season, the incident.”
“The only revenge that is right in the sight of God is kindness, love, and mercy... and grace.”
This Week
Remember This
The only revenge permitted for a follower of Christ is the righteous revenge of overcoming evil with kindness, love, mercy, and grace while entrusting judgment to God.
A Challenge for You
I pray for my brother and sister that God gives you strength to endure and the character to respond with a righteous type of revenge: kindness, love, prayer, honor, mercy, grace, and forgiveness.These are personal sermon notes shared to help you remember the message — not a replacement for Scripture, your church, or your pastors.
5 passages. Tap one to see how it was used, hear it, or read it.






